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This whole jealousy thing is very interesting to me because I haven’t really experienced it before. My ex-husband seemed completely trusting of me… to the point that even after admitting to an affair, he seemed unfazed. I often believe that I even had the affair to see if he really did care after all.
I am still working on finding a balance and setting new boundaries. My bf’s boundaries stop much earlier than mine and it scares him. He doesn’t KNOW me though. We are still learning about each other. And because of my past, unfortunately, there is a fear. We also live 3 hours apart and can only assume what each others’ interactions with the opposite sex look like.
If he saw me more in my everyday life, if he witnessed my daily interactions, it would ease his mind. I know this because I have some male friends that he no longer worries about because he’s seen me with them. He only knows me as a flirtatious sex kitten and expects that is how I treat everyone.
And honestly, I did treat people that way. I’ve been doing that for years and found myself in many situations that I’d rather not be in.
This is a learning experience for me. Jealousy or not, I definitely need to be more aware of my actions.
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Wombat
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March 29, 2010 at 3:42 pm
OMG I’m laughing my arse off at the “So, do you come here often?” line.
And it must have the “So…” prefix. Perfect. Just perfect.
Am I ever gonna resurrect that thing. Tonight, if poss.
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